There is a lot going on this year, and there are many ways to take advantage of that. From writing and creating, to volunteering at your local food bank, to getting outside to go for a walk, there are many things to do this year that you may not think about much, but that will make a big impact on how you feel, think, and live.
It’s also important to note that the majority of our thoughts and actions are on autopilot. We can find our own little ways to “make it meaningful,” but the fact is that our habits, routines, impulses, and reactions carry us through our lives so we don’t have to stop and think about it every time we wipe our ass or start a car. It’s more important to be in the present.
When we’re on autopilot for so long that we forget we’re on autopilot. Because when we’re not even aware of our own habits, routines, impulses, and reactions, then we no longer control them they control us. Whereas a person with self-awareness is able to exercise a little meta-cognition and say, “Hmm… every time my sister calls me and asks for money, I end up drinking a lot of vodkas.
That’s exactly what I’ve been doing with myself lately, and I’ll be honest, it’s working. I’m not doing it any more. I’m not the person that I used to be, the person that my grandma always told me I would become. I’m not the person that I’m proud of, the person that I always wanted to be. I’m not the person that I want to be. I don’t even know who I used to be.
In the past Ive been told that this was a “good job”. Ive been told that it was good that I was able to find the right words to say to my parents, but Ive also been told I shouldnt have been talking to them that way. I’ve been told I should be angry or bitter, when really the anger and the bitterness were just the right words to say.
You know what happens when you start talking to your parents? You get mad. You get angry. You get bitter. I mean, yes, it all makes sense. But you’re not really saying things like that. You’re just saying things like that.
The same thing happens when you start talking to your friends. You get mad. You get angry. You get bitter. You get annoyed. You get annoyed. And when you say things like these youll be left feeling like you need to take a nap.
What if you don’t? How do you know when your family is really your family when you’re not talking to them? For one thing, talking to friends is a big social activity. You meet new people, and you talk with them. That’s a lot of social interaction. For another thing, youll probably have a lot of friends at parties and youll feel like youre always talking to other friends.
This year there will be a lot more social interaction than usual, especially around the holidays. My family is not exactly a happy bunch of people and we will continue to get pissed off over the holidays and the holidays will be harder as things get more stressful. It also could be that if youre not in a bad relationship youll think you know what youre talking about and not have to get all philosophical with your friends.
This year it seems as if we are heading into a period of more meaning in life. In a way it is good. It means that we will have more good times together. It also means that I will have more friends and they will be more fun. It also means that I will have a better job than I have had in the past, and we will have more money. It also means that my husband will still be my husband.