I don’t know what you mean by “not sure”. It just can’t be defined, so you are left with the feeling that it is something you don’t know. What I mean is that it is a feeling you don’t have the ability to define and that is frustrating.
A feeling is something you can define, and that is what is frustrating.
If you dont know what something means, you have to decide which question to ask and which answer to give. That is, you cant just say “I dont know” and expect to get your question answered. When you dont know what something means, you are left in a quandary, wondering what to ask and how to answer. Asking the wrong question and making the wrong answer, when there are other things you want to learn, is not good.
To quote Alan Kay: “If we don’t ask the right question, we will never get the right answer.
In general, one of the most important lessons I learned when I was doing my graduate work at the University of Toronto was that asking questions in a way that makes sense to you (and your audience) will produce the most valid answers. This helps us make sense of the world around us, and gives us the best possible understanding of the questions we should be asking ourselves.
I find this to be true of all sorts of things, and so I am always looking for questions that are at least somewhat relevant to my own life. I have noticed, though, that there is a real tendency to make questions that seem irrelevant because they don’t answer the questions that are the core of the question. For example I may ask a question that sounds like it should be a good question, but when I look more closely at it, it’s just a good puzzle to work out.
It seems that some questions seem to be too irrelevant to ask, but they are the ones that cause us to dig in and find that they are what they are. The question in this case is, “If I could choose, what would I want to be?”. It is a good question to ask because it gets at a deeper issue than just being an “I’ll be a good person” type of person.
A good question is one that, when asked, will allow you to explore deep issues in a way that will be productive. If we’re going to ask why we should be good at something, we should ask why we are good at something. And like the many questions that you will get when you start your quest for truth, this question will reveal a great deal about that person.
This is one of those questions that will reveal a great deal about the person because it asks you to examine their life as it is, and as it turns out, a lot of that life is not as we want it to be.
Being good at something is not the same as being good in that moment. If a person can’t control their thoughts and reactions, then they can’t control their actions. This may seem obvious, but it’s something that people often overlook. It is not something you can stop. It’s something that you have to control. It’s something you have to do. It’s something that takes willpower. It’s something that takes work. It’s something that takes discipline.
